How much happiness is too much happiness


In the modern world we all are being subject to critical attributes and so much that we forget to be happy and smile. Yes you too can smile always. Yes, this is the realisation after i have seen a group of children seating in the train with their mothers and constantly chirping and talking and what not they are talking this that and those, it seemed their conversation is never ending.

I started to ponder will this be constant I mean these children when they grow up will they be equally happy? Chirpy and excited over small things? Not sure.

With growing up we loose few things like having that worry free smile, running about and doing things which we actually like. But there’s always a saying when we loose something we also gain something . With age it’s the basic thought how we think that we cannot be happy. Often I have seen people increasing their jealousy level just by seeing people smiling being happy. We cannot deny the fact how over crowded our brain seems so much so that the chirpy echoing tone of childrens’ joy is becoming a distant story.

Are you happy? Even we are happy it seems we are exploring too much and hence people says ohhh that girl certainly has some problem because who smiles so much.

After a Certain age like Jack of all threads and master of none you understand how it doesn’t matter what your society tells you. What matters is your own peace and for that what is important is choosing the right partner in crime means choosing the right partner for marriage.

Why it’s the most important thing or decision to be made in life and choosing means for most importantly one who will keep you happy and healthy. Having said this I have learnt this from my grandparents and great grandparents and then parents that what matters is being happy and obviously you will love the person with whom you can share extreme joy. Love comes automatically along with happiness.

In this life or in this birth knowing how difficult it is to get perfect partner I wanted to say it’s a thoroughly beautiful thing or happening that along with my beautiful partner it’s a blessing to have beautiful family who cares who shares who is the strongest pillar of support. It’s just we wait for the time where we can think of all our ancestors together weaving the similar thread of joy. .

We miss them ❤️

All of them and yes they are the ones who taught us smile it’s infinite quality. Let the world speak but don’t let a day wasted by not smiling , smile and everything else will fall into place and yes they are the one who taught to get inspired be happy in smallest of things , may be a little flower being bloom or the beautiful butterfly running about or the poor ma never letting her children being deprived. The list is endless but what matters is being happy because it’s priceless.

– Written by Sayoni Mahapatra Chatterji

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4 responses to “How much happiness is too much happiness”

  1. I can’t choose which sentences I love the most because each of paragraph touches my heart. Funny thing about my happiness is, I always question whether I was ever happy whenever sadness comes. Nowadays, I keep tracks my happiness so I can confidently said I am happy. In the past and present too. Love your post!

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  2. It is so beautifully written! I do believe “happiness” is the purpose for which HE gave us the human form.
    Somewhere in the Post you wrote: What matters is your own peace and for that what is important is choosing the right partner in crime means choosing the right partner for marriage.
    Yes, it is important in today’s world, but still, we find a spate of divorces.
    So the real thing should be “choosing to be happy’! You rightly said about your ancestors, they taught us to be happy/smiling. They taught us to have a love-marriage but in the reverse order. ‘Marriage-Love’ ! Marriage came first and love followed.
    Stay blessed, keep writing and spreading smiles!

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